Friday, December 31, 2010

Fallen but not cast down

Psalms 37:24 Though he fall, he shall not be utterly cast down: for the LORD upholdeth him with his hand. (KJV - sent from CadreBible)
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Thursday, December 16, 2010

Notable Quotes

The Big Bang Theory

Sheldon: You know, in difficult times like this, I often turn to a force stronger than myself.

Amy: Religion?

Sheldon: Star Trek.

Thursday, December 02, 2010

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

And the Suns coming up in the morning...

On way to dinner from grave yard service for my father, I saw the sun burst out from behind the clouds.  Maybe that's how it was for him, being traped in the grey darkness of the world to burst into the bright light of the Son.  I shall miss him so.

Monday, November 08, 2010

The Cornett Kids

Justin, Michelle, and Chad

Sunday, November 07, 2010

The Wireman's house. 2 rooms by 2 rooms

The Wireman's house. 2 rooms by 2 rooms but peaceful.

Tuesday, November 02, 2010

Friday, October 29, 2010

Ladies In PInk



This month was breast cancer awareness month at the human services center. I created this banner to be posted on site. I was unable to participate in the wear pink day as I don't have any. My Aunt Caren has had breast cancer. My Granny Betty had breast cancer and fought it for years. Don't know how many women actually will read this, but I encourage you to be sure that you do what you can to protect yourself. The people of the Knott County Human Service Center have been very kind to me.
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Thursday, October 28, 2010

Quote of the day

Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never met.

Captain America: Super Soldier


Forget Wolfenstein or Castle Wolfenstein. This is the way to beat the stuffin's out of those nasties.

Don't want to compare to COD or MOH. Those are too close to how the real heros did it.

Thursday, October 07, 2010

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

"Safe in the Arms of God"

Michelle, Dad, and Justin sang a few weeks ago.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

GoofyGold

Totally loved this records set when I was a kid. Would love to find the MP3 for this.


Listen to more excerpts here...

Wednesday, August 04, 2010

Highlander Theme Song

Watched this show every time it was on. I cried when the heroes girl, Tesse, died.

Thursday, July 08, 2010

Dad is on his way home from hospital

To All,
Dad is on his way home from hospital right now. He will have radiation to remove the cancer that was in his cranium. The long term plan is treat the cancer that has spread with Chemo until the stint that is in his heart has had sufficient time to take hold before they remove the kidney which is the source. This may take a year with regular Chemo treatments. Thanks everyone for their prayers. Some may be hearing this for the first time. We only discovered this less than a week ago.
Chad Cornett

Monday, June 28, 2010

Overcoming Negative Thinking

Overcoming Negative Thinking 

Chris Woolston 
CONSUMER HEALTH INTERACTIVE


In the words of psychiatrist David Burns, MD, people who are depressed are often masters of illusion. Their pessimistic outlook -- and some unconscious tricks of the mind -- can turn triumphs into setbacks, and setbacks into personal failings. Those of us prone to depression may be successful and accomplished, but we're often plagued by negative thoughts about ourselves and our future. This thinking distorts our view of the world until everything seems dreary and hopeless.

Burns is among the leading cognitive-behavior therapists, a group of psychiatrists and psychologists who think that changing negative, distorted thinking is crucial to overcoming depression. The tendency toward negative thinking isn't merely a symptom of depression, they say -- it's the root of the disease. Since our thoughts or "cognitions" shape our moods, positive thoughts can translate into an energetic, hopeful mood, while pervasive negative thoughts may cause us to sink into despair.

A study of 349 college students published in the Journal of Abnormal Psychology underscores this point. Students with pessimistic outlooks were eight times more likely than others to become depressed in the next two and a half years.

But negative thoughts don't have to be a way of life -- and neither does depression. If you're in the grip of depression, you need to seek professional help for your illness; if the depression is accompanied by mania, hallucinations, or suicidal feelings, you need to get help immediately. Help can be a call to a crisis center, to your local mental health agency, to your primary care physician, or even to 911.

The good news is that with time, effort, and treatment, even a crushing depression can lift. Many people who are depressed find relief through antidepressants or therapy: Interpersonal therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy are two types that have been shown to be effective at dealing with even the most stubborn cases of the illness. But as an adjunct to treatment, therapists have developed a number of "self-care" exercises you can use to help you control your thoughts and moods.

The idea that you can "unlearn" self-defeating ways of thinking that pave the way toward mood disorders is the basis of cognitive therapy, developed by Aaron T. Beck, MD, Burns, and others. In an updated version of his book Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy (Avon Books, 1999), Burns outlines a set of cognitive therapy techniques that people can use at home and at work to help boost their self-confidence and break the cycle of repeated depressions. His first set of exercises has to do with eliminating the distorted, self-defeating, and ultimately destructive thoughts that pave the way to depression.


Negative thinking: The 10 grand illusions


Before you can control destructive thoughts, of course, you have to recognize them. In his book Feeling Good, Burns identifies what he and other cognitive-behavioral therapists view as the 10 major mental or "cognitive" distortions that can open the door to depression. If you suffer from depression -- and you have plenty of company if you do -- some of these are bound to sound familiar.

1. All-or-nothing thinking. In this type of thinking, you're either a hero or a failure. Any small misstep marks you as a failure. This kind of thinking can lead to crippling perfectionism.

2. Overgeneralization. Whenever something bad happens, it's bound to happen again and again. If somebody you've idealized turns you down for a date, for example, you feel certain that the next person will, too.

3. The mental filter. You dwell on the downside of any situation while overlooking anything positive. If you're an editor, you may become obsessed with a typo that escaped into print rather than congratulating yourself for getting out a great issue.

4. Diminishing the positive. In this kind of thinking, you tend to twist positive events into negative ones. If you just got a raise, for example, you may put yourself down for not getting a bigger raise.

5. Jumping to conclusions. You become either a mind reader or a fortune teller -- whatever it takes to see trouble on the horizon. If a friend doesn't return a call, he secretly dislikes you. If you like your job, you'll probably lose it soon.

6. The binocular trick. It's as if you're wearing a special lenses that lets you see everything blown out of proportion. Little problems become monstrous; major victories, trifling.

7. Emotional reasoning. You believe mood reflects your true identity: You feel lousy because you are lousy.

8. 'Should' and 'must' thoughts. You constantly remind yourself of things you should or must do. (One expert calls this "musterbation.") At the end of the day, you feel buried in guilt and shame. You may also dwell on things that other people should or must do, setting yourself up for frustration and bitterness.

9. Labeling and mislabeling. You tend to equate your 'self' with what you do, and since everyone makes mistakes, over time you develop a negative self-image based on errors you've made. If you invested in a high-tech stock deal that blew up in your face, for example, you view yourself as a failure. Failure, loser, dummy: The labels stick. If you tend to label other people as well, you'll reap a lot of hostility.

10. Personalization. You assume responsibility for anything that goes wrong, even when it's not your fault. Burns calls this line of thinking "the mother of guilt."


Writing away depression


You may not be able to eliminate all these self-defeating thoughts, but you can keep them from wrecking your mood. To rid yourself of relentless self-criticism and distorted thoughts, Burns suggests spending 15 minutes every day capturing your thought process on paper. Looking at your thoughts on paper will allow you to search the list above to see what's distorted or "wrong" about them; next, take the time to come up with a fair and rational rebuttal. Whether you're depressed or just a bit down, the exercise may help you feel better within a couple of weeks. Here's his approach:

Start by briefly describing an event that bothered you, perhaps a comment by your spouse or something that went wrong at work. Write down the emotions you felt. Were you mostly sad, mostly angry, a little of both? Record the thoughts that led to those emotions (such as, "My marriage is in deep trouble" or "I'm doing a lousy job"). It's important to write down the thoughts that led to the emotions rather than the emotions themselves, because if you write, "I feel awful," well, that's probably true. Instead, write down the thoughts that are causing you to feel awful, then decide which, if any, of the 10 categories above your thoughts fall into (Overgeneralization? Jumping to conclusions?).

Once you identify the fallacies behind your negative thinking, you're ready to move forward. Look again at your thoughts and try to think of a more rational, optimistic response. For instance, "My marriage is in deep trouble" may give way to "My wife wasn't in a good mood today." You could counter "I'm doing a lousy job" with "I wasn't at my best today, but everyone makes mistakes" or "I still have some room to improve."

You may find that the simple act of writing down your problems gives you some newfound power and control. Things just don't seem so overwhelming on paper. And if the exercise helps break the stream of negative thoughts and mental illusions, you'll have more protection against depression. Now that's a pleasant thought.

-- Chris Woolston, M.S., is a health and medical writer with a master's degree in biology. He is a contributing editor at Consumer Health Interactive, and was the staff writer at Hippocrates, a magazine for physicians. He has also covered science issues for Time Inc. Health, WebMD, and the Chronicle of Higher Education. His reporting on occupational health earned him an award from the northern California Society of Professional Journalists.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

New Chapter - TV-Movie quotes






Star Trek VI: The Undiscovered Country

Captain Spock: What you want is irrelevant, what you have chosen is at hand


"Star Trek: The Next Generation" The Best of Both Worlds: Part 1 (1990)

Capt. Picard: We may yet prevail. That's a... a conceit. But... it's a healthy one. I wonder if the Emperor Honorius watching the Visigoths coming over the seventh hill truly realized that the Roman Empire was about to fall. This is just another page in history, isn't it? Will this be the end of *our* civilization? Turn the page.

"Star Trek: The Next Generation" Frame of Mind (1993)
Commander William T. Riker: What I need is to get out of this cell! I've been locked up in here for days. You've controlled my every move, you told me what to eat, what to think, what to say. And when I show a glimmer of independent thought, you strap me down, inject me with drugs and call it a 'treatment'.

"Star Trek: The Next Generation" Time's Arrow: Part 1

Counselor Deanna Troi: Have you ever heard Data define friendship?
Commander William T. Riker: No.
Counselor Deanna Troi: How did he put it? "As I experience certain sensory input patterns, my mental pathways become accustomed to them. The inputs eventually are anticipated and even missed when absent."
  
"Star Trek: The Next Generation" Legacy (1990)
 
Ishara Yar: Are you able to have friends?
Lt. Commander Data: Yes.
Ishara Yar: But you don't have feelings, do you?
Lt. Commander Data: Not as such. However, even among humans, friendship is sometimes less an emotional response and more a sense of... familiarity.
Ishara Yar: So, you can become used to someone?
Lt. Commander Data: Exactly. As I experience certain sensory input patterns, my mental pathways become accustomed to them. The input is eventually anticipated, and even missed when absent.

&

Commander William T. Riker: In all trust, there is the possibility of betrayal. I'm not sure you were... prepared for that.

Lt. Commander Data: Were you prepared, sir?
Commander William T. Riker: I don't think anybody ever is.
Lt. Commander Data: Hm... Then it is better not to trust?
Commander William T. Riker: Without trust there's no friendship. No closeness. None of the emotional bonds that makes us who we are.
Lt. Commander Data: And yet you put yourself at risk?
Commander William T. Riker: Every single time.
Lt. Commander Data: Perhaps I am fortunate, sir - to be spared the emotional consequences.
Commander William T. Riker: Perhaps...


The Matrix Reloaded

Agent Smith: But, as you well know, appearances can be deceiving, which brings me back to the reason why we're here. We're not here because we're free. We're here because we're not free. There is no escaping reason; no denying purpose. Because as we both know, without purpose, we would not exist.

[Several Agent Smith Clones walk in]

Agent Smith Clone 1: It is purpose that created us.
Agent Smith Clone 2: Purpose that connects us.
Agent Smith Clone 3: Purpose that pulls us.
Agent Smith Clone 4: That guides us.
Agent Smith Clone 5: That drives us.
Agent Smith Clone 6: It is purpose that defines us.
Agent Smith Clone 7: Purpose that binds us.
Agent Smith: We are here because of you, Mr Anderson. We're here to take from you what you tried to take from us.
[Attempts to copy himself into Neo]
Agent Smith: Purpose.


Merovingian:: Nom de dieu de putain de bordel de merde de saloperie de connard d'enculé de ta mère!

Morpheus: I have dreamed a dream, but now that dream is gone from me.

Daniel 2.
3 And the king said unto them, I have dreamed a dream...
5 The thing is gone from me:.

Merovingian: Something to eat? Drink? Of course these things are contrivances, like so much here, for the sake of appearances.

Neo: No thankyou.
Merovingian: Yes, of course. Who has time? Who has time? But then if we never *take* time, how can we have time?


Merovingian: What is the reason? Soon the why and the reason are gone and all that matters is the feeling. This is the nature of the universe. We struggle against it, we fight to deny it; but it is of course a lie. Beneath our poised appearance we are completely out of control.

Thursday, April 29, 2010

Kowtow (simplified Chinese: 叩头; traditional Chinese: 叩頭; pinyin: kòu tóu; Cantonese: kau tàuh, Vietnamese: khấu đầu) is the act of deep respect shown by kneeling and bowing so low as to have one's head touching the ground. An alternative Chinese term is ketou (simplified Chinese: 磕头; traditional Chinese: 磕頭; pinyin: Kētóu); however, the meaning is somewhat altered: kòu originally meant "knock with reverence",[citation needed] whereas kē has the general meaning of "touch upon (a surface)".[citation needed]

In Han Chinese culture, the kowtow is the highest sign of reverence. It was widely used to show reverence for one's elders, superiors, and especially the Emperor, as well as for religious and cultural objects of worship. In modern times, usage of the kowtow has become much reduced.

Saturday, April 24, 2010

Just watched Tombstone

Kate: I've been good to you, I've taken care of you. If you die, where
does that leave me?

Doc Holliday: Without a meal ticket I suppose.

[Doc rides horse out of barn into stable area, Kate runs out after him
punching him in anger]

Kate: You bastard!

Doc Holliday: Why Kate, have you no kind words for me as I ride away?

[pause]

Doc Holliday: I calculate not.

[rides off] -- IMDb Quotes: Tombstone (1993)

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Saturday, February 13, 2010

Come sail away with me.

Ok. This is odd but this strikes me as inspirational for me at this time. Well sorta.

 South Park - Cartman - I'm Sailing Away .mp3
Found at bee mp3 search engine

Lyrics | Styx lyrics - I'm Sailing Away lyrics